BLISSFUL MARRIAGE

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Been married for one year and seven months and I couldn’t just be any happier. I know some will say that we are just starting and this might change after having children, going through rough times and staying together for more than a decade. But hey, I really feel blessed and this has been an amazing journey for me and my husband. So if you are single and waiting/looking for the right one, hope this will inspire you. For newly married like us, I know you can share these blissful moments with us. For couples who have been together for more than a decade, hope you continue to inspire young couples like us and see the goodness in each other after being used to see your spouse’s face every single day.

Here are the ten things I enjoy having when I got married.

  1. HOLY SEX- One can lead to two and countless kisses without feeling guilty.
  2. NO BREAK UP OR COOL OFF- So I always want to make it right.
  3. BIGGER WORLD- I support my husband to be better in everything he does. I help him explore and try new things that can help him hone his craft. And vice versa.
  4. DREAMING AND PRAYING TOGETHER- Being under one roof helps us to have more concrete plans and discern it together. Prayer time is also easier.
  5. LEARN AND LIVE MORE- I began to explore about life when I got married. Contrary to what others say, that your life will end when you get married. Restrictions. Time. Priorities.
  6. GROWTH- Yes, we’ve only just begun so we always talk about what we fight about and how we can love each other more. Avoiding the things that hurt your spouse really helps to improve your marriage.
  7. GOD IS AT THE CENTER- Period.
  8. TEMPTATION PROOF-Whenever we go out, I use his eyes and he uses mine. If there are things that your partner will not be happy seeing you do or say, then think twice. Better be busy loving your partner. Always look and feel best for your and for him.
  9. LOVE MYSELF MORE- When I do, I love him more. I can give more.
  10. GREATER SENSE OF PURPOSE- Waking up and sleeping next to the person I love the most gives me the drive to do more.